Showing posts with label motivational. Show all posts
Showing posts with label motivational. Show all posts

Monday, June 8, 2009

How to retire & live your dream life NOW!



I’ve received some emails from readers who think that I’m retired and do nothing but spend time with my dog all day. Well, part of that is true, but I’d like to clarify now that I DO WORK! True, I lead a fairly leisurely life and am fortunate to be able to work from home. However, I am not at that point where I don’t have to work, at least, not yet!

My active income comes from my pilates classes and freelance writing. My passive income comes from my books and websites. Right now, my passive income is not more than my expenses, so I can’t retire and do nothing yet. I am currently in the midst of setting up two new websites that will add to my passive income portfolio (my goal: 5-figures on auto-pilot every month by next year!).

If retirement means relaxing and doing whatever your heart desires, then ok, I am officially retired! Anyway, retirement is not my goal. I enjoy my work too much to stop, and I think it is imperative that everyone follows their passion so that work doesn’t feel like “work”. I’m happiest when I am starting new projects so I don’t think that will ever stop - best part about an Internet business is that it costs almost nothing to set up (I’ll probably be 80 and still launching websites – Tantric sex for geriatrics anyone?).

Eventually, it all boils down to the individual – the reason I have been able to have a stress-free life and pursue whatever my heart desires is because I have simple needs – I don’t like to shop, don’t drive (I don’t even have a license, besides, my husband is my chauffer!) and don’t have any debts. My only indulgence is food, holidays and my dog. At present point, I already have everything that I need in life (a roof over my head and a growing nest egg via my investments).

Like they say, the richest person is the one who needs the least. Chew on that for a bit.

Monday, May 4, 2009

How to develop unstoppable motivation


Abstracts don't have emotional power. Specifics do. Get as specific as you can, with as many things as you can. You get a more realistic look at what they mean and what it would take to deal with them.

What would you do with the money? What would it mean to you? Maybe you'd be able to travel, and see places you've always wanted to see? Maybe you'd drive a safer (or fancier) car, or move your family to a better neighborhood, where they can enjoy more of life's comforts.

Maybe you'd give your spouse more of the things they want, or you'd have a more active social life for yourself.

What would you be more secure from? Uncertain job markets? Rising prices affecting your standard of living? Being locked into a situation that could change in ways you don't like and can't control?

What would you do with that free time? Spend it with your kids or your spouse or friends? It's impossible to visualize freedom. It's easy to visualize spending a Saturday afternoon on the golf course with your buddies, or a week in a favorite vacation spot with your family.

What about those things is important to you?

Would you take up a hobby you've always wanted, or spend more time with one you enjoy now? What pain would go away when you're successful? Struggling with bills? Sending your kids to schools that aren't preparing them for the kind of life they deserve? Having to say no to things your family wants? The stress and aggravation of a job that you hate, or that just bores you silly?

Again, you want to maximize the emotional significance of the pleasant things you'll gain and the unpleasant things you'll lose by achieving your goal.

If you've tipped the balance toward taking action, you'll know it. Any time you feel discouraged or start to slow down, run through all of those things in your mind. In fairly short order, you should find that minor discouragements don't even register, and bigger ones have much less impact. That's how you develop unstoppable motivation.

As you start to see more and more success, the positive things will become stronger on their own, and the negative things will fade without you needing to think about them. At that point, you've got the momentum you need to virtually guarantee that you'll get where you want to be, and get there in grand style.

Saturday, March 21, 2009

Gratitude – for a successful life


When was the last time you were grateful for what you have?

Or have you been too busy lamenting what you don’t have?

I understand that it is difficult to remember something so simple especially when you face setback after setback.

Just like you, I needed reminding…

I am an eternal optimist and always expect the best out of every situation. Sometimes, success takes a little longer and requires more effort on my part.

When I launched my ebook, Asia’s Dragons, I expected the world but it didn’t turn out that way. Sales are good but not what I imagined, and working with the gurus took longer than I expected.
Instead of letting disappointment get to me, I chose to focus on the positive. I am grateful because:

- I got to work with 8 Internet gurus for my first project.
- Sales are good (I have made back all my investment & more!)
- I have 2 more marketing campaigns coming up that will rake in more cash.
- I have managed to recruit several affiliates (resellers) who will be selling my ebook for me.

As soon as I changed my mindset, wonderful things started happening…

First, my friend from the US emailed me out of the blue and placed an order for my second book, Sleep & Get Rich. He also expressed interest in reselling Asia’s Dragons on his website.

Then, another friend who runs a PR agency offered to do a media campaign for the print version of Asia’s Dragons for pittance.

Wow! I feel so blessed. Thank you Universe :)

Friday, March 13, 2009

Seize the day


On September 18, 2007, Carnegie Mellon professor and alumnus Randy Pausch delivered a one-of-a-kind last lecture that made the world stop and pay attention.

It became an Internet sensation viewed by millions, an international media story, and a best-selling book that has been published in 35 languages.

To this day, people everywhere continue to talk about Randy, share his message and put his life lessons into action in their own lives.

Randy died July 25, 2008, at the age of 47. Click on the video below to watch it. It takes 10 minutes but it may change your life.


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Thursday, August 7, 2008

Simple & effective


Some of my favourite musings today:

"Sight is what you see with your eyes, vision is what you see in your mind." - Robert Kiyosaki

"Opportunity is missed by most people because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work." - Abraham Cowley

“There is one elemental truth, the ignorance of which kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one commits oneself, Providence moves all.” – Wolfgang Goethe

Wednesday, August 6, 2008

Surround yourself with positive, successful people

I can't emphasize this enough. If you have a negative spouse, friends or boss and you just can't bring yourself to get rid of them, find a bunch of people who are cheerful, positive and happy to hang around with and spend the majority of your time with them.

Thankfully for me, I have my band of "cheerleaders" - my brilliant sisters whom I turn to for all my business decisions, my hubby who always provides a listening ear to the business mumbo jumbo I'm spewing, my ever-supportive mum who quietly tolerates my tattoos and shaved head, and of course my circle of friends without which I'll have less laugh lines but be more dour.

P.S. On the above topic, I have exciting news coming up...I've been hibernating at home hard at work for the last few weeks and the results will be revealed soon...until then I am under embargo.

Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Losing my virginity

Secrets of Richard Branson's success in his aptly-named autobiography:

1. This entrepreneur and billionaire believes in thinking big and taking calculated risks. "My interest in life comes from setting myself huge, apparently unachievable, challenges and trying to rise above them."

2. Being less stressed than others by uncertainty.

3. Trying to prove people wrong.

4. Having the simple belief that "you can do it".

Random fact: He is not a fast talker or great public speaker, and admits that it often takes him time to answer a question properly. "I hope that people will trust a slow, hesitant response than a rapid, glib one." (this is something that resonates with me, that is why I dread "live" interviews)

Monday, July 28, 2008

"Let me try again"

When I am not writing, I conduct Pilates classes for private clients and companies. I am particularly struck by the focus and persistence of one of my tai-tai clients. At 62 years old, she definitely can't hold a candle to my younger and nimble students, but her willpower can easily stump all of them.

Whenever she can't do a certain move, she will try and try again until she succeeds. Even when she is sweating and red in the face, she will always say, "Let me try again." Then, closing her eyes to focus, she will give it another shot. Sometimes, I stop her as I don't want her to be worn out. It is no wonder she runs a company with turnover in the hundreds of millions.

Having persistence and never giving up is one of the key factors to attaining your goals. Often people give up at the first "no". That is why they fail. We all get rejected sometimes, and we have to learn to shake it off and keep our eyes glued on the goal. There will be other ways to getting it if we keep an open mind and stay optimistic and flexible.

Colonel Sanders (of KFC fame) was rejected 1,008 times before a restaurant bought his secret chicken recipe. If grandpa can do it, so can you!

Sunday, July 27, 2008

The power of goal-setting


Jack Canfield, co-creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul, developed what he calls the "Rule of 5" to meet his goal of getting Chicken Soup for the Soul, to the top of the New York Times Best-Seller List.

Jack's "Rule of 5" requires that every day, Jack does five specific things to move his goal to completion.

Completing five things each day doesn't sound like much, but imagine this:
Five pages of writing a day equal seven 250 page books in a year.
Five new customers a day equal 1,825 customers in a year.
The list could go on forever.
By the way, Jack met his goal. Chicken Soup for the Soul, eventually sold over 8 million copies in 39 languages.
How did he do it?

He did five things a day.

Maybe it was five interviews or five press releases or giving away five review copies. Jack did whatever he could as long he did at least five specific things everyday to move closer to his goal.

The biggest problem is that most people read, study, think, dream, plan and then ...

Do nothing.

So, what am I going to do today to get closer to my goal?

So far I've already:
- Defined my goal for my projects.
- Started writing.

Here's what else I'm going to do today (and next week):
- Finish up my e-book sample for free downloads (fyi, I am working on a digital book with my sister which will be launched in September and I'm so excited!).
- Confirm remaining interviewees for my second book (ooooh...this one is going to be BIG).
- Continue promotional work for Boss of Me! (book and I may be on national TV soon...).
- Confirm new Pilates corporate job.
- Update Boss of Me! blog.
- Catch up on my online and off-line reading.
- Think and strategise to achieve my goals.
- Stop neglecting my hubby (work is my new lover).

I know, it's more than five things, but I'm addicted to creating lists and this is fun for me.

What are you going to do today?

Each of you is in your own spot so what you do will be different from what I am doing, but let me make a couple of suggestions for today.
- Set a goal.
- Take action on five specific things to move you towards your goal.
Try it. You will be amazed at the results.
Excerpt taken from Kenneth A MacArthur of jvAlert.com

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Living purposefully

The brilliant futurist, Buckminster Fuller said, "The purpose of our lives is to add value to the people of this generation and those that follow." In short, to leave this world a better place than it was when you arrived.

Although many people believe they have a purpose, they often have a difficult time discovering their own reason for living. Because purpose holds such a spiritual sense, people tend to believe their purpose will somehow be handed down from the heavens. They wait for a "booming voice" to tell them what to do. Ok, a few "tuned-in" people do receive some type of message; some unmistakable calling. But the answer for most of us is that we actually have to "choose" our purpose. We are the ones who decide how we are best suited to serve. Our choice, however, is not random. We each have unique abilities, inherent talents and strengths. We each have different interests and activities that bring us joy. We each have different experiences and issues from which we've learned, and we all have a different way in which we can best serve others. It is through these factors you "choose" your purpose.

Can your purpose change? Yes. More likely, however, is that your overall purpose remains the same, while the vehicle you use to provide your service may change on an ongoing basis. If your purpose is to teach, for example, you may teach your own children, teach in a school, become an author or a speaker or even be a consultant. Regardless of your vehicle, your dharma is to "teach". It takes courage to choose a purpose and even more courage to live your life based on it! Once you have purpose, you will have two essential elements for a truly happy life - money and meaning! In this way, you will become "rich" in every sense of the word.

EXERCISE:

List your unique abilities, talents, strengths, interests and joys. From here choose an overall purpose for your life. Clarify it by writing it down. Then choose an initial vehicle with which you can serve people that is in alignment with your purpose. Begin today to live your life based on purpose.
Excerpt taken from Kenneth A MacArthur of jvAlert.com

Wednesday, July 9, 2008

My motivation

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In the book, The Art of Happiness, by the Dalai Lama, he says that the basic fact is that all sentient beings, particularly human beings, want happiness and do not want pain and suffering, and if we are lucky enough to be living a good life, we should recognize this gift and thank God for it by looking out for others who need our help in breaking out of the cycle of poverty.
If we give something away, we actually get something back in return: happiness.

Latest update from my publisher: Boss of Me! has sold out its first run and we are going for a reprint! It is being translated for India and will also be selling in Hong Kong! All this even before media publicity has kicked in. Wow!

I believe that once you find your calling in life, everything moves smoothly, enabling you to achieve your mission.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

What an amazing journey!

It is a dream come true - how my fascination with successful people led me on 20 amazing journeys with my local heroes.

Everyone of them has lifted me up and inspired me with their amazing life stories. Like a mother who adores all her children (for me, all 20 of them!), it is hard-pressed for me to pick my favourite. However, if I really have to choose, there are three that stand out for me:





1. Dr Georgia Lee

Power secret – Always give back more than you take!

Quote: Success is achieving all that you set out to do and being the best at it.

- Wanted to be a doctor at eight years old.
- Opened her clinic, TLC Medical Center, with $300,000 from her husband.
- Has 10,000 clients, including celebrity coiffeur, David Gan and the who’s who of society.
- Works 14-hour days, six days a week.
- Organises and pays for self-improvement classes for her customers.
- Dreams of owning a jet plane so that she can do house-calls around the world.

She is known in the media for her penchant for designer labels, but people who know Dr Georgia Lee, Singapore’s most glamorous doctor, will also attest to her amazing warmth. It is this attribute of hers that patients wait up to two hours to see her and all disgruntlement disappear the moment she opens her clinic door and greets you with the cheeriest ‘Hello!’ you have ever heard in your life!
One of the most renowned aesthetics doctors in Singapore. Dr Lee aspired to be a doctor since she was eight years old. “I wanted to help people and being a doctor is a very rewarding, feel-good job,” says this willowy 39-year-old. “I was a very self-sufficient child and would plan my own homework timetable and study very hard. I was lucky and did very well in all the important exams,” she recalls. Her discipline and hard work paid off and she graduated from the National University of Singapore with a degree in Medicine.
She spent six years working in a few hospitals after graduation and opened TLC Medical Center in Holland Village, in 1999, with $300,000 capital from her husband. His investment has since increased many-fold and the annual turnover is “in the high seven-figures”. Dr Lee started out as a general practitioner but it was a bad allergic reaction that kick-started her interest in aesthetics. “A contraceptive that I took made me develop ugly blisters on the left side of my face. The blisters went away but I was left with pigmentation that was so bad that I hid at home and people thought I was either beaten up by my husband, had herpes or had Aids.” She spent the next six to nine months researching on lotions and managed to heal her scars. “That unfortunate incident was a blessing in disguise as it got me interested in aesthetics and led me to help other people with skin ailments,” shares Dr Lee....





2. Louis Ng

Power secret – It’s better to feel like a million dollars than to actually have it!

Quote: Success is waking up every morning knowing that I am making a difference.

- Louis wanted to be an animal activist after watching Gorillas in the Mist.
- At 21, he successfully put a stop to chimp beatings in the zoo.
- Started ACRES to educate the public about animal cruelty.
- Currently draws a salary of $1,400 but says he feels like a million bucks.
- Built a rescue centre for animals rescued from illegal wildlife trade in Singapore.
- Wants to demolish the wildlife trade before he dies.

You cannot help but be swept away by Louis Ng’s passion for animals when you meet him. As Singapore’s most ardent animal activist, he has managed to raise an impressive $700,000 to date for his cause, ‘ACRES’- Animal Concerns Research and Education Society.
“I was 14-years-old when I saw a documentary about saving turtles in the wild and it dawned on me that I was actually killing them with my fondness for turtle soup. That was the start and I stopped drinking turtle soup, followed by sharks’ fin soup and stingray after watching more documentaries,” says Louis, reliving his early days. But, it was the movie, Gorillas in the Mist, a true-life story of naturalist Dian Fossey and her work with gorillas that changed his life. “I turned to my mum in the cinema and told her that I wanted to be just like her, which freaked my mum out as Dian Fossey was murdered at the end of the show,” relates Louis with much amusement.
He had the choice to enroll in an engineering course at the National University of Singapore which would have ensured a stable 9-to-5 career earning big bucks. However, Louis opted to do a Biology course instead so that he could pursue his interest in wildlife conservation. He received his Bachelor of Science in Biology and his Master of Science in Primate Conservation from the Oxford Brookes University. “My mum, like any parent, was angry because she thinks I will have no prospect when I graduate, but I’d rather be happy than rich” says this 30-year-old who currently earns $1,400 monthly.....


3. Ban YJ


Power secret – Make the most of what you have and think out of the box!

Quote: Success is finding the perfect balance in your career, health, relationships and spiritual growth.

- Ban started his company because of a stray dog.
- Stikfas was born in 2000 and has sold more than four million units today.
- He attributes his creativity to his care-free growing up years in a kampong.
- Sales took off after Stikfas was licenced to toy giant Hasbro.
- Fans range from seven to 60 year olds.
- Ban wants Stikfas to be a heritage brand like Lego, for the future generations.

His multi-million dollar toy empire began with a stray dog called Tripod. Animal lover, Ban Yinh Jheow, better known as Ban, found a wounded, brown mongrel near Nicoll Highway in 2000. He wanted to keep the dog, which he called Tripod as it had only one good leg, but his HDB flat was too small for it, so he looked around and eventually, found a 2,000 sq ft shophouse in Katong that was going for $1,400 a month in rent. “I needed to make a business out of the premises to pay the rent,” says this youthful looking 39-year-old. At that time, he was unemployed after an animation company he was running closed down. Using his background in animation and vivid imagination, Ban began designing a prototype of an action figurine which he called the Alpha Male. This figurine was the first of many that Stikfas – which comes from the words ‘stick’ and ‘fast’, would later produce. A year later, he registered the company and ran the business in the shophouse with two staff.....