Showing posts with label inspiring. Show all posts
Showing posts with label inspiring. Show all posts

Monday, November 24, 2008

If she can succeed, so can you!


I've just finished reading Click Here To Order, a book about Internet marketing pioneers and one particular story wowed me.

Ladan Lashkari is a 20-year-old Iranian woman who has had to overcome some extreme obstacles on her brief but challenging journey to Internet marketing success.

If Internet marketing was a wrestling match, Ladan started the competition with both hands, feet and eyes bound. These are some of her obstacles:

- She lives in Iran where religious and political issues make it difficult for women to work.
- English is not her first language.
- She can't travel.
- Discrimination against her nationality.
- Discouragement from friends and family.
- Because of the US Embargo, she couldn't get a credit card, open a Paypal account, get a merchant account, have a bank account in US dollars, accept wire transfers or cash any USD checks - making it almost impossible for her to sell anything online!

Yet, she has surpassed all odds and now makes more money than 95% of the people in her country with her various websites. She attributes her success to her father's faith in her as well as her unwavering belief in herself and sheer, hard work.

She says, " If a young girl who got started when she was 16 years old, with no previous business experience, with English being her second language, with less than $30 to her name, in a country where you can't have a credit card or Paypal account and is under a strict embargo from United States, and so many limitations...if such a girl can succeed, how is it possible that you can't succeed - when you may not even have one of these limitations?"

For more information on Ladan. go to http://www/ladanlashkari.com

Sunday, September 21, 2008

Inspiring people

I am so thankful that my work gives me the opportunity to meet fascinating people.

From philanthropic millionaires to shrewd businessmen (or both!), my sessions with them are always a lively discourse of shared ideas. I walk away emboldened, invigorated and validated every time.

Most recently, I met up with Dr Ting Choon Meng. Google his name and you will see that he is an inventor disguised as a GP. Gregarious and endearingly clumsy, he made headlines for turning down a $420 million offer to buy over one of his companies (to find out his reason, you'll have to wait for my book, Sleep & Get Rich! - out next year).

The money doesn’t matter to him as he is already wealthy beyond reason in his heart and mind. We talked about “mining our oil fields”, how China and India are becoming behemoths in the financial industry and JK Rowling. I am joining him at the next gathering for his association of inventors, called the Fellowship of Inventors, and may even give a talk there (Dr Ting insists that I am an inventor…duh!). I am also nurturing some invention ideas in my head. Would be fun to create a product…

I have also been roped in to help my friend’s efforts at Youth Challenge. Run by Landy Eng, a well-known angel investor, the charity’s focus is on a halfway house in Laos set up for girls and women rescued from human trafficking. Looks like a trip to Laos is in order...

Who knows, maybe inventor and philanthropist will soon be added to my multi-hyphenate…and I am feeling extremely blessed to have the time and resources to explore all these varied and exciting opportunities!

Saturday, July 26, 2008

R.I.P

Randy Pausch died today of complications from pancreatic cancer at age 47. Randy recently became famous for his "Last Lecture" when he talked to his students at Carnegie-Mellon after he learned that he only had months to live. It's definitely worth your time to watch this video of what he said:


Makes you realize how short life is and Randy gives you a few ideas on how to make it worth living. Enjoy Randy's inspiration in memory of his amazing spirit and his desire to help YOU have an impact in your own life.
I'll leave you with this quote from Anna Eleanor Roosevelt: “Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product.”

Wednesday, July 23, 2008

Thank you for all your shout-outs!

Dear readers,

Thanks for sharing your kind words about Boss of Me!, for adding me on Facebook (especially Larry for advertising my book on your status to your 2000+ friends!) and for seeking my humble advice about writing a book. I hope I answered your queries in my posts below.

Keep them coming and my advice to all those who are thinking but not doing: If you wait until you have your entire plan figured out and buttoned up, the world will have moved on and passed you by. Sometimes, it's better to start then learn as you go along.

Case in point: Me. Ok, I am an exception as I develop tunnel vision when I have a goal and have a tendency to hurtle at breakneck speed towards it. But, if I had hesitated to weigh the odds, Boss of Me! may not have materialised.

So what if you failed? Every experience is a learning opportunity and I've had two major (and costly) setbacks before:

1. When I was 24. I founded a barter website called http://www.xchange141.com/ with a five-figure sum loaned from my dad. Timing was off and the dot com bubble burst. My investors pulled out and I lost my capital. Instead of moping around, I promptly got myself hired as a business development manager at CNET Asia, thanks in large to my eight months of start-up experience and valuable contacts gleaned from it. I was the youngest manager on board and my comfortable pay enabled me to pay my dad back (phew!). I regard this as my MBA crash course.

2. In my second year of teaching pilates, I was bored and had idle time, so decided to go into the financial services business. Very quickly, I learnt that I am not a sales person because I was not hungry enough. But, I stayed on for two years to learn all about investment and managing my own finances. When I left, I was adept enough to start and manage my own investment portfolio as well as my husband's.
Just do it!
* Please mention my book if you are adding me on Facebook as I usually ignore requests from strangers. Sorry if I have rejected you, please try again if you want :)

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Living purposefully

The brilliant futurist, Buckminster Fuller said, "The purpose of our lives is to add value to the people of this generation and those that follow." In short, to leave this world a better place than it was when you arrived.

Although many people believe they have a purpose, they often have a difficult time discovering their own reason for living. Because purpose holds such a spiritual sense, people tend to believe their purpose will somehow be handed down from the heavens. They wait for a "booming voice" to tell them what to do. Ok, a few "tuned-in" people do receive some type of message; some unmistakable calling. But the answer for most of us is that we actually have to "choose" our purpose. We are the ones who decide how we are best suited to serve. Our choice, however, is not random. We each have unique abilities, inherent talents and strengths. We each have different interests and activities that bring us joy. We each have different experiences and issues from which we've learned, and we all have a different way in which we can best serve others. It is through these factors you "choose" your purpose.

Can your purpose change? Yes. More likely, however, is that your overall purpose remains the same, while the vehicle you use to provide your service may change on an ongoing basis. If your purpose is to teach, for example, you may teach your own children, teach in a school, become an author or a speaker or even be a consultant. Regardless of your vehicle, your dharma is to "teach". It takes courage to choose a purpose and even more courage to live your life based on it! Once you have purpose, you will have two essential elements for a truly happy life - money and meaning! In this way, you will become "rich" in every sense of the word.

EXERCISE:

List your unique abilities, talents, strengths, interests and joys. From here choose an overall purpose for your life. Clarify it by writing it down. Then choose an initial vehicle with which you can serve people that is in alignment with your purpose. Begin today to live your life based on purpose.
Excerpt taken from Kenneth A MacArthur of jvAlert.com

Thursday, July 3, 2008

LAUNCH


- How do you transform your passion into something gratifying?

- What makes successful people tick?

- How do you overcome adversity and turn them into opportunities?

Find out all these answers and more in Boss of Me! Out now in all major bookstores and Amazon.com.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

Media coverage!

Boss of Me! has garnered quite a bit of media interest. Media coverage in August includes:

Vanilla magazine August

Valuable life lessons gleaned from 20 of Singapore’s movers and shakers.

Successful people and their magic formulas have always fascinated me. In my view, a successful person does not have to make millions. He (or she) is someone who pursues his dream, remains steadfast to his vision and emerges as the leader in his chosen field. I decided to find out what makes successful people tick by interviewing 20 local heroes and have compiled my findings into a book called, Boss of Me!.
All my interviewees pursued their dream jobs with a dynamic combination of bravery, inspiration, support from family and friends, and lots of drive and determination. What they have done can be repeated in many different fields and you too can transform your passion into something gratifying and profitable. Here are five key qualities that will help you succeed in the right job, right now.










1. Develop a clear sense of what you want to achieve

The mind is an amazing tool and if you have a goal in sight, you will achieve what you focus on. That was what happened for Wendy Leong, one of the only five female pilots out of 120 pilots at SilkAir. She knew she wanted to be a pilot when she was 10 years old after a family friend brought her onboard a light aeroplane for a joyride. Even though airlines did not hire female pilots back then, Wendy was undeterred and enrolled in a mechanical engineering diploma course at Singapore Polytechnic to learn about the construction and engineering aspects of aircraft. She knew that this would be an advantage for her when she became a pilot as she would understand plane engineers better.
After graduating from the United Kingdom with a degree in Mechanical Manufacturing, she returned to Singapore Polytechnic to be a lecturer. During this time, she continued to keep an eye out for the chance to pursue her dream job. She even saved diligently while she was lecturing so that she would have cash to tide her through the months of pilot training. Wendy’s wishes were finally answered when she was watching television one day in early 2002. “I saw the first female pilots in SilkAir and the Air Force being interviewed. Without wasting any time, I sent in a letter of application to SilkAir and was delighted to be accepted!” She is now Senior First Officer and has her sights set on being Captain in the next two years.













2. Think big and compete on an international field

Singaporeans tend to favour international brands over local ones. However, some entrepreneurs have overcome that hurdle by having an extraordinary idea and the guts to pull it through. Back when most day spas were medical or European-style spas that imported most of their treatments and philosophies wholesale, Cynthia Chua, managing director of Spa Esprit Group, revolutionised the spa industry by offering treatments, like hot stones massages, that were not yet available in Singapore. Today, she has a burgeoning empire of 30 shops and has also expanded to Dubai, London, Malaysia and Jakarta. “Going international is a big endorsement for my company. It is great when people acknowledge what you have done and want to have your business.”

Another entrepreneur creating waves regionally is Daniel Tay, founder of Bakerzin. From a small bakery in a low-key condominium in Sembawang supplying French bread and pastries to hotels and restaurants, he now has 20 outlets in Singapore, Shanghai, Indonesia and Malaysia, and he intends to expand to the United States in the next few years – giving global café chains a run for their money. “I want to have 100 Bakerzin cafés globally in five to 10 years time.” His business philosophy - “If Starbucks can do it, why can’t I?”








3. Don’t get attached to money

Face the fact that if you go into something purely to make lots of dough, chances are you will not succeed. Walking the talk is prominent animal activist, Louis Ng, who believes that feeling like a million dollars is better than actually having it. He founded and runs the Animal Concerns Research and Education Society (ACRES) - a wildlife research and education centre, and earns $1,400 monthly despite having a Masters of Science from an American school. So far, ACRES has helped in the rescue of more than 160 animals from the illegal wildlife trade in Singapore and it has also raised more than $700,000 in funds.
Another “giver” is well-known aesthetics doctor, Dr Georgia Lee. Known in the media for her penchant for designer labels, not many people are aware that Dr Lee is also renowned for her generosity - not in the material sense, but in her genuine desire to help people. She frequently organises “self-improvement” parties for her customers, like a make-up class conducted by famous make-up artist, Andy Lee, and she pays for these parties out of her own pocket. She also told one of her clients, a stressed-out housewife, to take time-out daily for herself, and if she succeeds, her next treatment will be on the house. It is no wonder there is a three-month waitlist to see her!













4. Reprogram your mind - paper qualifications are not that important

In Singapore, where it has been instilled that a degree is necessary to make a living, fashion photographer, Geoff Ang, has defied the odds. Bad at school, he dropped out of Primary 6 to be a photographer at his dad’s production house and now makes up to $80,000 a day as one of Asia’s most sought after photographers.
His lucky break came when he had to take portraits of Daniel Yun (of Mediacorp Raintree Productions) for Dunhill and Daniel loved his photos so much that he tasked Geoff to shoot promotional pictures for their top 30 artistes in Mediacorp. Geoff impressed everyone with his stylised, avant-garde pictures of the stars which were publicised in 8-Days magazine. This forward-thinking lens man then ploughed all the profits he got from the job, all $38,000 of it, into a digital photography system which allowed him to tweak, enhance and make his photos into surreal-looking works of art. It was refreshing and had never been done before. It jolted the fashion industry and magazine editors started calling him to do fashion shoots for them.













5. Being a pioneer will give you an unfair advantage

Use what makes you different to your advantage and embrace the unknown. That is what Zouk’s founder, Lincoln Cheng, did. A former hippy who was a regular at legendary festivals like Summer of Love and Woodstock, he travelled around the world to party in uber-cool clubs like Studio 54, Paradise Garage and Hacienda. It was during one of his yearly jaunts to party island, Ibiza, where he caught a deejay playing a new blend of dance music that was very different from the usual pop tunes played commercially back then. This new sound intrigued Lincoln’s ears and he promoted it at the newly-opened Zouk back in 1996. It caught on in a big way and Zouk is now touted as one of the best clubs in the world.
Lincoln had always believed in being the pioneer – he introduced steel structures for high-rise buildings in Hong Kong while everyone was still using cement, and started the boating lifestyle there by selling luxury yachts. In fact, he had the foresight to propose building a world-class marina on Marina South in 1983, but it was rejected by the URA. He was the leading system furniture supplier in Singapore and handled numerous turnkey projects for the government sector. “I’ve always liked niche markets and I like to be original, doing things that haven’t been done before,” says Lincoln sharing his success philosophy.




Her World magazine August

Interview in Women Now section: Three things I've learnt from my book.

1. Buy books that you have no interest in

That is how Ban Yinh Jheow, founder of multi-million dollar toy empire, Stikfas, keeps his mind active. “I have books ranging from Aids to quantum physics and this approach ensures that I never stop learning.” This constant cultivation of his mind has enabled Yinh Jheow to come out with innovative ways of promoting his business. For example, instead of going to the distributors, he went direct to the consumer by selling Stikfas exclusively online, creating a consumer push so that distributors came to him instead. He used another unique strategy to score a distribution licence with international toy giant Hasbro in 2002. “We placed a full-page teaser ad with our website address in Toyfair, a top US magazine. That caught the attention of Hasbro and they approached us.” From 2002 to 2004, Stikfas was licensed to Hasbro and this move saw a significant increase in its product range, distribution network as well as market recognition.

2. That you can make good money being an artist

Artist Lee Wai Leng commands an impressive $2,000 to $4,000 per artwork, depending on how intricate it is and has worked with branded clients like Levi’s and Chanel. “People have the misconception that artists don’t make a good living but we can. Like all freelancers, how much you make is dependent on how hard you want to work,” she says, dispelling the notion of ‘struggling artist’. She works hard for her money though, promoting her work via yearly exhibitions and handing out her namecards at social events, which she calls a “necessary evil”. To boost her portfolio with big-name clients, Wai Leng also works closely with advertising agencies who call upon her for her distinctive artwork. “I’m old-fashioned and believe that hard work pays off. I add value by offering my two-cents worth to all my projects. That is my edge and my clients appreciate that as an illustrator’s eye offers a different perspective to things,” she shares.

3. Don’t get attached to money

Face the fact that if you go into something purely to make lots of dough, chances are you will not succeed. Walking the talk is prominent animal activist, Louis Ng, who believes that feeling like a million dollars is better than actually having it. He founded and runs the Animal Concerns Research and Education Society (ACRES) - a wildlife research and education centre, and earns $1,400 monthly despite having a Masters of Science from an American school. So far, ACRES has helped in the rescue of more than 160 animals from the illegal wildlife trade in Singapore and it has also raised more than $700,000 in funds.

Wednesday, April 23, 2008

What an amazing journey!

It is a dream come true - how my fascination with successful people led me on 20 amazing journeys with my local heroes.

Everyone of them has lifted me up and inspired me with their amazing life stories. Like a mother who adores all her children (for me, all 20 of them!), it is hard-pressed for me to pick my favourite. However, if I really have to choose, there are three that stand out for me:





1. Dr Georgia Lee

Power secret – Always give back more than you take!

Quote: Success is achieving all that you set out to do and being the best at it.

- Wanted to be a doctor at eight years old.
- Opened her clinic, TLC Medical Center, with $300,000 from her husband.
- Has 10,000 clients, including celebrity coiffeur, David Gan and the who’s who of society.
- Works 14-hour days, six days a week.
- Organises and pays for self-improvement classes for her customers.
- Dreams of owning a jet plane so that she can do house-calls around the world.

She is known in the media for her penchant for designer labels, but people who know Dr Georgia Lee, Singapore’s most glamorous doctor, will also attest to her amazing warmth. It is this attribute of hers that patients wait up to two hours to see her and all disgruntlement disappear the moment she opens her clinic door and greets you with the cheeriest ‘Hello!’ you have ever heard in your life!
One of the most renowned aesthetics doctors in Singapore. Dr Lee aspired to be a doctor since she was eight years old. “I wanted to help people and being a doctor is a very rewarding, feel-good job,” says this willowy 39-year-old. “I was a very self-sufficient child and would plan my own homework timetable and study very hard. I was lucky and did very well in all the important exams,” she recalls. Her discipline and hard work paid off and she graduated from the National University of Singapore with a degree in Medicine.
She spent six years working in a few hospitals after graduation and opened TLC Medical Center in Holland Village, in 1999, with $300,000 capital from her husband. His investment has since increased many-fold and the annual turnover is “in the high seven-figures”. Dr Lee started out as a general practitioner but it was a bad allergic reaction that kick-started her interest in aesthetics. “A contraceptive that I took made me develop ugly blisters on the left side of my face. The blisters went away but I was left with pigmentation that was so bad that I hid at home and people thought I was either beaten up by my husband, had herpes or had Aids.” She spent the next six to nine months researching on lotions and managed to heal her scars. “That unfortunate incident was a blessing in disguise as it got me interested in aesthetics and led me to help other people with skin ailments,” shares Dr Lee....





2. Louis Ng

Power secret – It’s better to feel like a million dollars than to actually have it!

Quote: Success is waking up every morning knowing that I am making a difference.

- Louis wanted to be an animal activist after watching Gorillas in the Mist.
- At 21, he successfully put a stop to chimp beatings in the zoo.
- Started ACRES to educate the public about animal cruelty.
- Currently draws a salary of $1,400 but says he feels like a million bucks.
- Built a rescue centre for animals rescued from illegal wildlife trade in Singapore.
- Wants to demolish the wildlife trade before he dies.

You cannot help but be swept away by Louis Ng’s passion for animals when you meet him. As Singapore’s most ardent animal activist, he has managed to raise an impressive $700,000 to date for his cause, ‘ACRES’- Animal Concerns Research and Education Society.
“I was 14-years-old when I saw a documentary about saving turtles in the wild and it dawned on me that I was actually killing them with my fondness for turtle soup. That was the start and I stopped drinking turtle soup, followed by sharks’ fin soup and stingray after watching more documentaries,” says Louis, reliving his early days. But, it was the movie, Gorillas in the Mist, a true-life story of naturalist Dian Fossey and her work with gorillas that changed his life. “I turned to my mum in the cinema and told her that I wanted to be just like her, which freaked my mum out as Dian Fossey was murdered at the end of the show,” relates Louis with much amusement.
He had the choice to enroll in an engineering course at the National University of Singapore which would have ensured a stable 9-to-5 career earning big bucks. However, Louis opted to do a Biology course instead so that he could pursue his interest in wildlife conservation. He received his Bachelor of Science in Biology and his Master of Science in Primate Conservation from the Oxford Brookes University. “My mum, like any parent, was angry because she thinks I will have no prospect when I graduate, but I’d rather be happy than rich” says this 30-year-old who currently earns $1,400 monthly.....


3. Ban YJ


Power secret – Make the most of what you have and think out of the box!

Quote: Success is finding the perfect balance in your career, health, relationships and spiritual growth.

- Ban started his company because of a stray dog.
- Stikfas was born in 2000 and has sold more than four million units today.
- He attributes his creativity to his care-free growing up years in a kampong.
- Sales took off after Stikfas was licenced to toy giant Hasbro.
- Fans range from seven to 60 year olds.
- Ban wants Stikfas to be a heritage brand like Lego, for the future generations.

His multi-million dollar toy empire began with a stray dog called Tripod. Animal lover, Ban Yinh Jheow, better known as Ban, found a wounded, brown mongrel near Nicoll Highway in 2000. He wanted to keep the dog, which he called Tripod as it had only one good leg, but his HDB flat was too small for it, so he looked around and eventually, found a 2,000 sq ft shophouse in Katong that was going for $1,400 a month in rent. “I needed to make a business out of the premises to pay the rent,” says this youthful looking 39-year-old. At that time, he was unemployed after an animation company he was running closed down. Using his background in animation and vivid imagination, Ban began designing a prototype of an action figurine which he called the Alpha Male. This figurine was the first of many that Stikfas – which comes from the words ‘stick’ and ‘fast’, would later produce. A year later, he registered the company and ran the business in the shophouse with two staff.....